By the MeetAndPlay editorial team · · 6 min read
Many people come to tennis after 30, 40 or 50: because their children play, because they watched a Grand Slam match, because they got tired of the gym or because it was always the thing they meant to do. The good news is that tennis can be learned at any age and played for life. The bad news is that, without a good start, the first months can be frustrating. This guide explains how to start well as an adult: lessons, equipment, realistic goals and how to look after your body.
Realistic expectations
Tennis is harder to get going than padel or pickleball. The court is big, the ball is fast and there are no walls to give you a second chance. In your first lessons you will hit plenty of balls into the net or long, and that is normal.
What you can expect with two sessions a week:
- In one or two months: rally from the baseline with some consistency, serve without double-faulting most of the time and understand how a match is scored.
- In three to six months: play full sets against other beginners and genuinely enjoy the matches.
- In a year: have reliable forehands and backhands and start thinking about tactics.
Consistency is the key. Two hours a week for a year takes you much further than five hours a week for a month.
Start with lessons, not matches
The most common mistake adults make is learning "by playing" with a friend. You pick up habits — a wrong grip, hitting with the arm instead of the body — that take years to fix and that also cause injuries.
Group or private lessons. Group lessons of four to six students are cheaper, more social and enough for the first months. Private lessons progress faster and are worth taking from time to time to fix details. A good mix is a weekly group lesson and one private lesson a month.
Slower balls. For years the International Tennis Federation has promoted learning with lower-pressure balls — red, orange and green — and shorter courts, first for children and later in its adult programmes too. If your coach has you playing with a green or orange ball for the first few weeks, it is not a punishment: it lets you rally sooner and learn the right technique.
A good coach explains the why behind every correction, adapts the pace to your age and fitness and gets you rallying from the first lesson. If after a month you have only done basket drills without playing, find another one.
The equipment you need
Racquet. For an adult beginner the best choice is a large-headed racquet, about 100 square inches or more, light to medium weight, between 270 and 300 grams unstrung. It forgives off-centre hits and does not tire the arm. Have your grip size measured: one that is too thin or too thick makes you squeeze too hard and is a frequent cause of elbow pain. Many clubs lend demo racquets; use them before you buy.
Strings. A synthetic gut or multifilament string at medium tension is kind to the arm. Avoid the very stiff polyester strings the professionals use: you do not need them and they punish the elbow.
Court shoes. Essential. Running shoes are made for moving forwards; in tennis you move sideways, brake and change direction all the time. In Mexico most courts are hard courts (concrete or acrylic), and there are also many clay courts at private clubs; there are specific soles for each.
Balls. Buy fresh tubes for your matches: a ball that has lost pressure bounces low and changes the feel of the shot. At altitude in Mexico City or Toluca many players prefer balls designed for altitude, because standard ones fly and bounce too much.
Where to play in Mexico
- Private sports clubs: well-kept courts, a coaching academy and partners at your level. Many require membership, but some rent courts by the hour.
- Public sports centres (deportivos): much cheaper, with concrete courts and often lessons from municipal schools.
- Padel clubs with tennis courts: increasingly common, with hourly hire and no membership.
- Residential developments and hotels: in destinations such as Cancún, Los Cabos or Puerto Vallarta there are courts in residential complexes and hotels that are sometimes rented to outsiders.
Your first goals
Set concrete, measurable goals instead of "play better":
- Keep a 10-shot rally going from the baseline.
- Land 7 out of 10 serves in the correct box.
- Play your first full set with official scoring.
- Learn to come to the net and volley in doubles.
Doubles deserves a special mention: there is less running, more teamwork and it is the most social form of adult tennis. Many clubs run level-based doubles games at weekends.
Look after your body
- Always warm up for ten minutes before playing: shoulder, hip and ankle mobility, then a few minutes of gentle rallying.
- Watch out for tennis elbow (lateral epicondylitis). It usually comes from hitting with the arm alone, a badly sized grip or strings that are too stiff. If pain appears on the outside of the elbow, rest and see a specialist before carrying on.
- Strengthen shoulders and legs off court: two short strength sessions a week prevent many injuries.
- Hydrate and protect yourself from the sun: across much of Mexico you play outdoors and in the heat.
- Respect your pace. If you have not played sport for years, start with one-hour sessions and build up.
How to measure your level
Tennis uses scales such as the American NTRP, which runs from 1.5 for a complete beginner to 7.0 for a professional, or the International Tennis Federation's ITN. On MeetAndPlay we use our own 0 to 7 scale for all three sports; our levels guide explains how to place yourself. Knowing your level helps you find evenly matched opponents, which is what makes a match fun.
In short
Start with lessons, use beginner-friendly equipment, set small measurable goals, look after your elbow and shoulders and play consistently. Within a few months you will be playing sets with other adults at your level, and in tennis that is only the beginning: it is a sport you can keep playing for decades.
Frequently asked questions
- Is it too late to learn tennis at 40 or 50?
- No. Many adults start at that age and play for decades. It pays to take lessons from the start, warm up properly and increase the load gradually.
- Which tennis racquet should a beginner buy?
- One with a large head, about 100 square inches or more, light to medium weight, between 270 and 300 grams, with the grip sized for your hand.
- How long until I can play a tennis match?
- With two sessions a week, most adults play full sets against other beginners somewhere between three and six months.
- How do I avoid tennis elbow?
- Good technique (hitting with the body, not just the arm), a correctly sized grip and soft strings at medium tension. If pain appears, rest and see a specialist.
